This week Cliff and I celebrate our 48th wedding anniversary. We are not experts on marriage by any means, but we have learned a thing or two about
- navigating its mysteries and
- negotiating the best for both
We sometimes see through a glass darkly
Image captured in a 3-D hologram cube created via laser – visit to Prague, Czech Republic 2006
(Nothing dramatic happened in Prague except black light shows with marionettes. If you want wild and crazy drama, you’ll have to click here!)
For now we see in a mirror, darkly . . . But now abideth faith, hope, love, these three: and the greatest of these is LOVE.
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Poet James Dillet Freeman expressed his view of the mystery of marriage In “Blessing for a Marriage” in at least 8 ways:
- May you need one another, but not out of weakness.
- May you want one another, but not out of lack.
- May you entice one another, but not compel one another.
- May you embrace one another, but not encircle one another.
- May you succeed in all important ways with one another / And not fail in the little graces.
- May you look for things to praise, often say, “I love you!”
- And take no notice of small faults.
- If you have quarrels that push you apart / May both of you hope to have / Good sense enough to take the first step back.
In the last last stanza he concludes:
May you enter into the mystery which is
The awareness of one another’s
Presence — no more physical than spiritual,
Warm and near when you are
Side by side, and warm and near when
You are in separate rooms
Or even distant cities.
May you have happiness,
And may you find it making one another happy.
May you have love, and may you find it loving one another.
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